Elder Ephraim on Love

Elder Ephraim on Love by Slava Bogu on Monday, June 7, 2010 at 9:51am
My child, always justify your brother and reproach yourself. Never justify your deeds. Learn to say, “Bless” – in other words, “Forgive me” – and humility will dwell within you. Have patience and overlook your brother’s faults, remembering God’s forbearance towards your own faults. Love as Jesus loves you and as you want others to love you. Hold on to silence, constant prayer, and self-reproach, and then you will see how much mourning and tears and joy you will feel. But if you fail to hold on to them, in other words, if you neglect to apply them, then coldness and dryness will replace the above graces.

Love the brethren. Your love will show when, despite all your brother’s weaknesses, you count them as nothing and love him. Love will keep you from all sins. Think of nothing but your own sinfulness. Reproach yourself constantly – this is the best path.

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